23 February 2009

Agree to not agree

In a relationship, we have to practice fair and controlled arguments. Arguments are a natural part of any relationship. It is important to keep these arguments in perspective and fair. Forget the name calling and the accusations, we may be able to apologize sincerely for the things we might say in an argument, but we cannot un-hear the things that we have heard. True or not, those words said in an argument have a way of hurting.


Another important tip to note is to keep the argument on topic. We will definitely not resolve anything if we get off track. And try to remember that not all arguments have a winner and a loser. Sometimes it's better to agree to not agree, and just leave it alone. To continue to argue for arguments sake is pointless, and we should refrain from doing so.

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